Suddenly Every Mom Is An Expert, An Author & A Doctor

Is it just me or the minute you become a mother, it’s like you’ve opened yourself up to criticism from every tom, dick and harry? I’ve never received so much advice, suggestion, and insults before. Suddenly every other mother is an expert and has the right to tell you how to raise your kids or question why your son doesn’t go to nursery when he is 2 years old when every other kid does.

 

 

If you’re following me on instagram then you know I’ve always been vocal about my opinions when it comes to certain topics and I stand by them. I won’t pretend to be one thing on Instagram when in reality it’s nothing close. Kind of like those “supermoms” that ONLY show you what they want you to see but never include the nannies. Why try so hard to portray an image that clearly isn’t true. Why show this fake lifestyle that you obviously can’t live upto?

 

 

You see mothers who had kids 2 seconds ago and suddenly they’re telling you how you should do this or you shouldn’t do that. They’re experts now and have the right to advice you on how to be a mother. 

 

You see mothers telling other mothers how they should discipline their little ones. They should stand their grounds and not let the little ones dictate anything, you’re the boss not them. BUT they’re KIDS! They should have the freedom to speak, to reason, and to question. They are kids. 

 

You see mothers questioning why that mum was picked for a job that she could have done. Why her? So they start talking, whatever they have to say to feel superior. After all, it all comes down to that, doesn’t it? 

 

You see mothers trying so hard to fit in, trying so hard to make their kids into something they’re not just so they could be accepted in that mum group that talks about every other mum and criticizes every kid and yet you want to be a part of it. 

 

 

You see mums completely abandoning their responsibilities as mothers and allowing someone else to do them because that’s the current trend now, let someone else handle your kids. 

 

 

You see mothers suddenly authors and “about to release a book” on parenting because they’ve had two kids which are now 3 and 4 so they’ve mastered this whole parenting thing.

 

 

You see women who’ve never had kids but they have 3 dogs so they have the right to tell you to ignore your kids when they’re crying because it’s the right thing to do. “Don’t look at their eyes when you’re putting them to sleep” “Do not co sleep” 

 

 

You see mothers making fun of that other mother who has just been divorced and is now a single mother working hard for her kid/kids. Keep in mind they’re “friends”..

 

 

You see mothers telling other mothers their kids are too fat and they should go on a diet. The kids are probably 2 years old..

 

 

could go on forever, but my kids just woke up from their nap. So I will leave at that. 

 

 

xoxo

 

 

Waheeba

 

 

 

 

 

4 thoughts on “Suddenly Every Mom Is An Expert, An Author & A Doctor

  1. I still co-sleep specially my husband travel all time for work , i still have my baby home and teach him myspf he is only one year and half, sometimes i got that look 👀 from mothers cus I don’t send him to nursery, like if he is 7 yrs old, i am full time mom now educated with master and phd so really i can teach my kid at this age and spend these wonderful time with him it makes him a happier kid and nice to everyone and always laughing i have the opportunity to be with him so why other mother have to judge like if it’s wrong, our moms did the same and here we are good nothing wrong with us l, just everybody has to mind his business and onow that every kid is different and the parents know him more that u who just meet him for second and become an old expert in his life…..

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    1. You are an amazing mother darling! End of the day you have some people who will talk regardless you do good or bad, it’s just in their nature. That’s why you need to do what you think is right, let them talk.

      You’re his mother and YOU KNOW WHAT IS BEST!

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  2. My dear Waheeba… I love you for your bold and fearless nature and also for the fact that you speak your mind out! Everybody is judged on social media and that makes people damn insecure. These so called moms know they have to be fake to get what they want. Some go to lengths to show that their life is perfect. Only the ones who struggle as a parent like yourself don’t have time for such and stay grounded. Let the world judge you but you just keep doing what you love as you should be proud of yourself for sticking to your words till today and not changing for the sake of this so called Blogger mom status!

    I’m happy to have known you on social media and I will always be there to support you!

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    1. Thank you so much my darling Tina. That’s the thing with social media when used in the wrong way, they try to hard to portray this fake imagine they forget to live! They miss those special moments with their little ones because they are busy filming EVERYTHING!

      xoxo

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